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Kay and I have been praying for ourselves and for many of our companions that we would “finish well”.  What would finishing well entail? No doubt our thoughts on the subject will not cover all that it means, but the following are some of the ideas that we have gleaned as we have processed this with many companions.  We are finding them helpful as we live into this last phase of our lives. One of the ideas that came out in early discussions with others is that this is a  question that should be pursued early in our journeys because that’s when we make the decisions that will result in ending our days well.   It is a major mistake to wait until the end of our lives to begin...

I have often heard people say that we need to keep the “main thing” the main thing.  And of course for most of us, we would immediately know this refers to holding on to Jesus and his life in us and through us. In Andy Stanley’s book, Irresistible, he gives insight into one of the foundational things that take us off course.  It is the way we so often let go of Jesus and what he teaches us, for the security of a religious system called Christianity. God made a covenant with Abraham that He would bless Abraham and Abraham would be a blessing to the world.  God was faithful but Abraham and his descendants were not.  The system failed. God made a covenant with Moses and the...

I have recently read several writers who state with conviction that the traditional transactional gospel message is incomplete.  They maintain that what has been, and is being, preached is only part of the message Jesus and the early church proclaimed. These writings have underscored a concern I have had for many years. Shortly after the genocide in Rwanda in 1994 I had the opportunity to talk with Michael Cassidy, a South African evangelist.  He had preached often in Rwanda and he also was very involved in bringing together leaders of different ethnic groups in South Africa in the successful work of ridding the country of the scourge of apartheid. The Rwanda genocide...

There are many ways that God communicates to us that he loves us and wants us to live our life completely joined to him. This brief piece is to affirm two messages that the Lord wants us to know and to live.  I have found them both foundational to my life as they help me live in ways that please God, brings healing to me, and is of some benefit to others.  The first word is “Chosen”.  A few thoughts on this follow: The playground was usually a fun place to be when I was growing up, but there were times of stress in that venue.  One of the recurring times of stress was the choosing of teams for pickup games of baseball.  Naturally, the best players were always chosen first...

Several years ago I wrote a piece titled “Life in the Bark” in which I presented the idea that if we concentrate on the life of the Spirit in a fellowship, that life of the Spirit will shape the organization (bark) in which it flourishes.  Here is a quote from that reflection: “In a healthy tree the flow of life produces internal growth that expands and shapes the bark of the tree.  When the life-giving flow of the Holy Spirit—the Life of Jesus—is flowing within the lives of the believers in an organization then the institution (bark) will be shaped by the spiritual growth in the people.  The bark is not dead because it is also made up of people.  It responds, splits, and...

Relationships and Friendships Enhanced by Proper Use of Technology – Observations and Ideas from C. R. Baugh and Kent Hotaling          Technology is a fantastic tool for not only getting work done but also for enhancing, supporting, and building friendships. Our technological advances are resources for connecting and for building and experiencing community.  However, technology does not automatically do so. We must manage technology so that it does not manage us. It can be so enticing that technology can control us without realizing it. When that happens, our relationships become flattened because we no longer relate to people at the deeper level of face-to-face...

We lived in Washington, D. C. for fourteen years.  We loved being with the companions in faith who were part of our lives.  We were grateful for the opportunity to connect with people from all over the world who were in D.C. as part of their professional concerns or who came for short visits.  We even made friends with some who served on Capitol Hill.  One of the downsides of living in the nation’s capital is the intensity that is part of the lives of so many.   I was often caught up in the life style of a city of self-important people.  More than I like to remember, I found that as I was meeting with and “listening” to one person my mind was distracted by the next person...

Thoughts on Marriage After 59 years of married life, Kay and I have learned some things about marriage and we are continuing to learn from the Lord and from good companions.  Here in brief form are some of those things.  They are not in any order of priority.  They are all important to us. Each of us needs to be experiencing a walk with the Lord. Being transformed to be like Jesus is a lifelong experience – without this journey none of the other ideas work. Getting our needs met: We have learned that this is a burden we are not to lay on each other.  The place to begin with having needs met is with Jesus.  And we are part of the Body of Christ so some of these needs are...

The Antioch Fellowship For many years I have studied and pondered the things that made the fellowship that Jesus empowered in the first century so powerful and life-giving. The fellowship of believers in Antioch is one of the places these where we get a glimpse of these things.  Here are some observations about this fellowship: Acts 11:19-30 The church was founded by a group that had been scattered by the persecution of Jesus followers in Jerusalem. It was essentially a lay church.  It seems right that some leaders in our fellowships should be supported financial by others.  But if this creates an organization that exalts the “professionals” above the other sisters and...